A letter from Souad’s daughter

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Foto: Aicha Qandisha

Once upon a time, a Saudi mother lost her seven year old daughter to her ex-husband. It took the mother ten years of her life to get her girl back. That fight, that life-changing experience made her stand up and fight for the rights of all women in Saudi society.

The mother went on to became a journalist and writer, so as to address all what’s wrong in our society. She became a women’s right’s activist and the first woman in Saudi Arabia to defend a client in court. She was the first female lawyer who paved the way for other female colleagues.

She became the head of the Liberal Network in Saudi Arabia, an organization that stands up for progressive causes in our country and she grew out to be one of the most vocal critics of terrorism, intolerance and religious extremism. She has stood up against religious fanatics who issue fatwas against women driving cars, because according to them it affects a woman’s ovaries, and sports activities, because they think they lead to adultery.

Souad Alshammary
In this closed society, that same woman openly supported the King’s reforms to empower women and she called upon the government to take a stronger stand against terrorism and extremism. She was furthermore the first to introduce the notion of human rights in Saudi Arabia.

And now, after so many years and such a long fight, her human rights have once again been violated.

The little girl who was taken away from her mother was me. My mother is Soud Alshammary, the first female Saudi activist to be arrested because she dared share her thoughts and criticize the religious elite on social media.

The risks were always there and the pressure wasn’t easy. From the beginning, she was targeted by extremists and conservative religious leaders. Many people have threatened to kill her and hurt her children. The authorities have blocked her bank account, they prevented her from registering one of her daughters in college and they even stopped her salary. She lives with us, her children, in a rented home, but is not able to pay the rent and bills. My brothers and sisters have met with verbal abuse at school, for being Souad Alhammary’s children. And all of this, because she spoke out against those who are responsible for all what is wrong in our society.

Her opponents have repeatedly called for her arrest. They demanded she be flogged. Others have issued fatwas claiming it is halal to kill her. But my mother studied Islamic Law and knows how the clergy abuse the Islamic sources. She is one of the few people who dared to publicly challenge them and question their authority.

And for that, my mother was arrested and jailed on October 28th: because she spoke out against the clergy and demanded equal rights for women via social media. Her crime is tweeting her thoughts. Saudi Authorities have now charged her with ‘stirring up public opinion’.

Suffocating control
And now she’s in a prison in Jeddah. With no court date yet. Handcuffed like a criminal.

Our biggest fear is that if Saudi authorities send her to court, the judge will be another Sheikh, a member of the religious elite who hate her so much. She may be sentenced to ten years in prison, just like other Saudi activists who were sent to jail because of their opinion.

My mother has dedicated her life to all of us. She fought for the rights of every Saudi who wishes to live freely without the suffocating control of the religious police. She fought for every single woman in this country. And now they have taken her away from us. After so many years, it is now I who must fight to get her back.

Souad, my mom, always told me to stand up for what I believe in. I believe in her right to be free. I believe she should be with us, her family who miss her very much an cannot imagine a life without her. The thought of her being sentenced is terrifying and heartbreaking to me and my five brothers and sisters. My mother sacrificed everything to unite us and give us a safe home. The prospect of us being separated is unbearable. Please help her.

I cried a lot while writing this letter. I want to do everything in my power to see her released. I have no faith Saudi authorities will treat my mother fairly.

My mom never quit believing. She never wavered. She never abandoned hope nor her principles. She never stopped giving. Now, let’s please give a little bit back to her. Help me, help her. Let us free Souad. My mother. Mother of all free women in Saudi Arabia. She is not only my future and that of my brothers and sisters. She is the future of Saudi Arabia.


Sarah, Souad’s daughter

3 Reacties op “A letter from Souad’s daughter

  1. Suus
    8 november 2014 at 12:49

    Dear Sarah,

    Your mother is so courageaous. I already signed Amnesty’s request for her release and shared it on my wall. I’ll do it again today together with your letter.
    Hold on, stay strong, my thougths and prayers are with you, ameen.

    Love, Suus

  2. Marina
    8 november 2014 at 20:43

    Dear Sarah,

    You never walk alone. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
    Warmest regards,

  3. Don
    10 november 2014 at 22:02

    I have signed, and I will encourage others to do so, as well. You may reach me at my email address, listed above.